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A friend kicked and hit my dog.....

1/17/2018

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Written Dec 23rd, 2017

It’s 5:30 AM, I’m wide awake with no sleep in sight.  Over the past week or so I’d been going through a period of insomnia but tonight is different, tonight I am haunted by an incident that happened earlier in the evening that has snatched away my peace of mind like a seasoned pick pocket.   An incident happened that churns my brain into a vortex of disbelief and hurt...... 

My little black toy poodle Jake has been known to nip one of our friends and I’ve never understood why, as others come and go without incident.  There had been one time when Jake rushed at him barking and the friend grabbed and pushed him forcibly to the floor in a Cesar Millan style of reprimand, but it was done roughly and it choked him.  I hollered for him to stop but he didn’t and only when I reached to grab Jake away did the man let him go.  When done properly the dog is calmly put on his side and then held by the back of the head as one dog would do to the other in a pack situation, not forced down violently so that the dog’s legs are twisted and pinned nor cutting off their oxygen.  I was upset, but because nothing like this had ever happened before I brushed it off as an isolated incident but vowed never to bring him to their home again.
  
So earlier this evening, the man and his wife, long-time friends of ours arrived at our house and Jake rushed the man and nipped his leg.  It wasn’t a full on bite, it doesn’t break the skin or cause bruising, its more of a surprise than a pain.  Usually we are diligent and hold him as he barks furiously at this man until he is in the door and all is settled, but this time we were distracted with other friends and didn’t make it to the door in time.

So the man was nipped, I saw it happen.  Then I watched in horror as the man kicked Jake in the ribs, sending him across the floor up against the cupboards and then moved toward him to kick him again.   I screamed “Don’t kick my dog!”, Jake is as big as a minute compared to a six foot human and his little body is vulnerable. I rushed in and scooped Jake up before the foot connected for a second blow and carried him towards the living room.  The man followed me and when I turned around, he was right there, drew his arm back and hit Jake in the face.  The look on the man’s face ruffled me, it was pure hate.  He was not the man I thought I knew.  He was a stranger.
Shielding Jake from further assault, I ran into the downstairs powder-room, closed and locked the door and sat on the toilet seat.  Jake was whimpering. I was sobbing. 

I might be able to understand and perhaps forgive a knee jerk reaction to the nip, but trying to get in a second kick and failing that, following me and administering a blow to Jake’s head is totally a different story.  

The evening was to celebrate hubby’s and my birthday and now it lay in ruins.   Hubby, came in to see how I am and asked if I’m coming out but my blood pressure was soaring, my head was pounding and anger was breeding progeny in the blood vessels of my face until it was painted pure red.  I told him I wouldn’t be coming out; I couldn’t pretend it didn’t happen.  I was terribly upset and then wondered why hubby didn’t ask the man to leave but I guess I can’t judge when I cowered as well.  We both couldn’t comprehend what happened.  Call it shock I guess. 

Years of past friendship with this man tried to balance itself against the abuse of our dog, and even though the man held no significance there I sat on a toilet seat, hiding from the reality of what just happened.  I waited there for a bit then went upstairs with Jake.  They all saw me as I walked by, no one said anything.    Henri, our cream boy followed us and I sat on the bed to mull over what happened, again and again and again and again.......  I don’t condone Jake nipping, but the reaction didn’t fit the incident and it wasn’t a fair battle, like bringing a tooth pick to a gun fight. I won’t have my dog injured or beaten.  How dare someone come into my home and attack one of my pets.  One of my children!    

I’m ashamed of myself now.  I’ve written enough in the past that you all know I don’t do controversy well but my dog was abused and I didn’t stand up for him.  When I told some friends they were appalled and told me they would have thrown him out by the scruff of his neck.  I can’t stand the thought of him getting away with what he did but I suppose, in the long run, he won’t because if he valued our friendship at all there will be a loss.   

It was the shock of it all.  It numbed me but I should have spoken my mind, not ran and hid.  My past comes up to haunt me once again.  Being constantly bullied by an older sibling and then married to a man that abused me, stops me short but there are times when you have to step out of your past and stand up for what you believe in, defend the ones you love and I failed.  This will be one of my bigger regrets and it will haunt me to know I didn’t fight for my precious little dog. 

So now I’m in a quandary and my brain won’t settle for sleep to relieve me of dark thoughts.  I can’t stop the chant, “Oh my god, my friend kicked and hit my dog”, “oh my god my friend kicked and hit my dog”.  The fact that Jake didn’t suffer serious injury was a miscalculation on the man’s part.  He clearly meant to inflict pain, I could see it in his face. Hubby tells me that he’s witnessed the guy kicking his own dog so there is a mentality that is bred in.  He obviously has no respect for small animals or understanding of why they do what they do.   Dogs can read people better than humans, Jake knows.... 

I view my dogs as my children, I love them as if they were born from my womb.  Now when I think of this guy I see a black heart, one that can never be trusted around Jake again.  Now that Jake has been hurt by this man, he will remember it until he takes his last breath. 
  
So I stayed upstairs for the next hour until he and his wife left, listening to him laugh and drink our Scotch and eat our food.  When I’m upset with someone I can pretend that it’s all okay, I can’t act as if nothing’s happened to spare his feelings when mine are in pieces, but I am ashamed that I hid. 

So now I’m left to deal with the aftermath.  I can’t get it out of my head.  His actions. His face. Never once did he apologize, hubby said his wife said he shouldn’t have done it,  but no one tried to speak to me to smooth it over or check on Jake to make sure he was okay.  That hurt as well but maybe it’s telling, perhaps the value of our friendship was one sided.   Their host was clearly absent from her own birthday gathering and they didn’t care.  The other friend came up to check on me, my hubby told me later that she told the man that I view my dogs as my children, a fact that he knew already.  Hubby is upset that this happened as well, we’ve renamed the scotch the man was drinking, “Kick The Dog Scotch” a black humoured, lest we forget kind of thing.... 

Now when I think back and remember things this friend said in the past like “It’s only a dog” when I spoke of the death of a past poodle,” and how he used to laugh, almost brag when their troubled dog bit (not nipped but full on bit) every dog it ever came in contact with, I’m wondering if my feelings for him clouded my instinct.  Perhaps he wasn’t adding humour to somber events to remove the sting, but telling the truth and masking it with comedy.

But all the assumptions aside, the ugly fact remains that my little dog was hurt, kicked and then hit in the face, there is nothing more to say......Jake comes first, last and always.  Time to find new friends.     



49 Comments
Janet
1/17/2018 01:12:51 pm

People who abuse animals are not nice people at all

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Chad
7/2/2020 12:45:19 pm

Control your dog then. if it bites someone they have the right to knock the shit out of it

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Duke
8/30/2020 06:12:22 pm

Shut the fuck up you coward. I’d beat the fuckin’ breaks off of you if you ever tried to pull any shit with my dogs. You’re the human, you have control over your instincts and reactions. Dogs don’t. Fucking idiot.

Kay link
11/21/2022 12:15:46 pm

You are completely wrong about what you said. Please look at what you said carefully. You have no right to be a human if you believe you have to kick a dog just he nipped him.

H
4/11/2022 09:33:23 am

The only time I could ever see myself hitting a pet dog is if a bite broke the skin and the pet was not letting go. Striking a puppy/dog for nipping or mouthing innocently is not the way to teach them not to.

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Bill
11/21/2022 11:47:48 am

You people are snowflakes. If a dog bites me it’s getting hit or kicked back. It’s your own fault for not training your dog well.

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Anne
1/17/2018 01:16:45 pm

You did protect your dog... you removed him from the danger. You keep referring to this person as a friend....NO friend abuses a friends animal..... I would let this person know they are no longer welcomed anywhere near you or your dog. Obviously if the dog reacts to only him like he does then something has happened when you were not around. Do not keep blaming yourself for any of this....YOU did what you should have done....HE is a person with issues and is neither worth you time or sleepless night. Hug your pup and have a good snooze....... from another animal lover

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Nat
7/22/2019 11:24:09 am

What I have just read has shocked me What you witnessed with this sub human is the person that he really is The part of him he manages to almost hide in public. A scumbag.. A man with anger issues and a bully to boot. I'm reading your article and my blood is boiling. I have two dogs and two cats and god help anyone that lays a finger on them to harm them. Don't be ashamed for your hiding in the bathroom.. But understand that your dogs look to you for protection . Never ever allow this man or his wife in your home again.
It will trigger bad memory and bad behavior from Jake. How r dare he come into your home and follow you and slap the dog . Good god I can't calm myself!!!

I would cut all contact . I would also report his dog. You need to alert someone for his dog's welfare

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Greg
10/13/2019 10:55:52 am

He's lucky he only got two lashings. If any dog ever shows disrespect to me I will put it in it's place immediately. They are animals, not humans, and they should be treated as such

Ruby Mackenzie
1/17/2018 01:16:57 pm

i would first like to say .I am sorry for your expierence.First this man is not a friend..A friend would stop and ask if perhaps when his is around the dog could safely be placed in a room where it fells hsppy.It is the dogs home.I know dogs .Dogs usually dont bite for no reason.Perhaps the man has mistreated your dog before..The dog clearly knows this....thus the reason to nip to warn him...If the dog doesn't bite others.Clearly the man is the problem....Beat the man over the head with your broom tje next time he comes....He is not a man but a coward...sorry I hope your dog is ok....You can trust animals not humans...

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Jeanette
1/17/2018 01:18:44 pm

I am so sorry for you and your little Jake. I hope Jake didn’t suffer any injuries. Although mentally he is probably pretty traumatized. Don’t beat yourself up but do resolve to stand up to anyone else who would kick or hit you or your dogs. And please don’t call this person your friend. A friend would never do what he did. I hope you have removed him from your social circle.

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Shannon Olden
1/17/2018 01:24:23 pm

whether you consider them your children is moot. he is an abuser. no longer a friend imho. and report him of you see him hurt his own dog. shameful. eating drinking and laughing? sounds like a psychopath.

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Kyle link
12/11/2019 12:21:57 pm

maybe he was only pretending to be that persons friend

Winnie Cairns
1/17/2018 01:20:01 pm

Very sad that this happened to Jake - totally unforgivable for a guest to come into your home, abuse your dog, drink and eat and act like nothing happened. This friend would totally be crossed off my "friend list". Not a friend. Our dog Teka is our baby - there are a couple of people that she acts differently around - and we are aware of that and keep her away from them. The "Mama Bear" would come out in me if anyone abused her (or any animal). .

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Lynn
1/17/2018 01:51:10 pm

You handled it much better than I,I'm sure I would have slapped his face so hard when he hit my dog in my arms,he would not have know what to do. A friend ,Ha!!

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Patti
1/17/2018 02:35:54 pm

Hi! While your friend's actions to the dog's behaviour were over-the-top, he obviously thinks yours is not enough. Given the hostory, he shouldnhave suggested getting together somewhere your pup wouldn't be. I can totally imagine that your pup is like one of your children, I really can, but your friend is you friend! This guy is just never going to be welcomed by your pooch, that's a given, and he's shown HIS loyalty to you by exposing himself to the ire of your dog several times it seems. I think both your friend and pup would have been well-served by you if perhaps the 4-legged friend was put in a room with his favourite treats and toys while your 2-legged friend was visiting. Or maybe just visit away from home, without pup there, and everyone is happy. As a human, I relate to the friend in this case, tho his reaction was extreme.

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Tracy
1/17/2018 03:00:29 pm

Hi, I respect with your willingness to offer a different point of view, but I can't help but disagree. This wasn't just about a dog, this was about a human using his considerable power and strength against a living creature much smaller than him. It was uncontrolled anger rearing its ugly head and it is not justifiable. Abuse never has justification. Could plans have been made to try and prevent the situation? Probably. But the fault and the responsibility lies with the abuser. This was kicking and striking a toy poodle, not defending oneself from a larger, more aggressive breed.

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Mary
3/17/2022 08:47:12 pm

No. The guy is a narcissist. The dog knew that. I would drop him like a hot potato - and his wife (who probably has also been slapped and abused).

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Norma
1/17/2018 02:40:29 pm

Oh, Christine, I could not believe what I was reading. What an evil, hateful man. You handled it better than I would have. Our pets are our children, and I was seeing red. He would have been out the door with the first kick, and told never to return, ever. Obviously, Jake knew he was an abusive, bad, person, and was just trying to protect his family. Dogs can easily sense things. This man is not to be trusted.

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Judith
1/17/2018 03:00:08 pm

I am so sorry that you experienced that. Jake may have reacted that way because he has abused him in he past. Personally, the friendship would be over. I wouldn't have any contact with a person like that. I certainly wouldn't isolate my dog for the likes of a person like this. I agree with you: A knee-jerk reaction can be forgivable, but to follow you into another room and continue the abuse is something else. From what you said about the remarks he made in the past, he cares nothing for animals. They are objects of little worth. Should you remove him from your circle of friends, I would still be careful of him.

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Dolly
1/17/2018 03:13:03 pm

OMG, can not believe this! I , being an animal and child protector believe this is totally unexceptable behaviour from anyone and a guest to boot! Not welcome, in my belief, as a friend nor a guest! Dogs sense people who are not animal lovers!

My question, wonder how he treats other people when he doesn’t like them? Poor, little doggie!

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Susan Anderson
1/17/2018 03:45:36 pm

I’m appalled at this story. So sad for you and your beautiful dog. We had a dog when I was a kid who was brutally “corrected” by a trainer ..when it was the trainer who startled the dog by coming up behind her and grabbing her collar. She never trusted or liked any male people from that day forward. Dogs KNOW, of course he didn’t trust this brute. People who mistreat small animals usually have a deeper problems. Not to be trusted. You are good too remove him from your life. I feel for his wife. Lord knows he must not be easy to live with.

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Ernie
1/17/2018 03:49:13 pm

Omgoodness Christine, I cannot believe that a so called friend would come into your house and kick and slap your dog. Yes, he nipped him, but absolutely NO excuse for him to do that. I think you DID protect your baby and I’m actually shocked that this man didn’t apologize. He owes you a sincere apology and I would not feel baldly at all for my behaviour, if I were you. Dogs are animals and everyone knows that - sometimes they don’t like someone, but for this guy to act like that, I can’t believe that THEY didn’t leave.
Yes, get some new friends or if you keep them, I’d make sure they never come in contact with my dog again. To be very honest, I personally feel that this guy should not be allowed to own a dog! Rest easy Christine and please don’t feel badly - he’s the one who should be feeling beyond bad!

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Don
1/17/2018 03:49:21 pm

Totally unacceptable behavior. Firstly Jake was in his own home. He obviously has an issue with this "friend" - small wonder. It is highly likely he's abused your dog before. You acted appropriately by removing him from the danger this person presented to his health and well-being. I don't have children but I do have a dog and she is my baby and God help the person who ever got the notion to hurt her in any way. I would fight them to the death. That man is a bully and a moron and certainly is not a friend. Get rid of him from your circle of guests.

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BennyJenks
1/17/2018 04:45:15 pm

First I'm sorry this happened to your dog and second to you.We as humans are not perfect as in animals are not perfect. We all have our faults and it's not pretty when they are unleashed. Your dog knew from the first meeting with this man that he was not do friendly.Probably why he nipped him. You did what any mom would do and that was putting yourself in harms way.You reacted as you did and it was the right way to react. Don't beat yourself up with any should have,could have,etc. You now know who this man really is and is unwelcome in your house.Best action you can take is to turn him in for abusing his dog and know you did the right thing.It's going to be alright.

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Vicki Yanda
1/17/2018 05:17:51 pm

I’m so sorry this happened. I truly would not want, nor tolerate, a friend who is a bully, You protected your dog in every way..you grabbed him, removed him, and comforted him and stayed with him. This man does not deserve your time nor your energy. You took the high road and did not toss him out......don’t berate yourself, but instead, know you went above and beyond for your precious baby! You’re his hero!!!

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Vicki Crane
1/17/2018 06:26:18 pm

I am so sorry for what occurred to both you and your dog. Such a horrendous act of aggression. You did the right thing in protecting Jake. The man was the responsible "adult" in this situation and he certainly acted like a spoiled, irresponsible child. Chuck him off your friend list and move forward knowing you will always have Jake's love.

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Maggie Bathory link
1/17/2018 07:09:57 pm

First of all, I am deeply sorry that this happened to your baby and to you. It never should have happened; it was very wrong on so many levels.

Don't ever feel shameful, Christine. You were caring for your beloved pup, your family. It is abusive and primitive how this couple behaved. They are not friends of yours. The man is a bully, and that is why you were unable to say anything or come out. Neither he nor his wife showed any remorse whatsoever toward your baby or you.

You have great insight into the events that occurred and your feelings. I wish I would have been there to throw him out of your home. They don't deserve you.

Do not waste your energy or precious time lamenting over this incident. Take action and regain your power by writing everything you think and feel down onto a piece of paper. Crumple it up, say a prayer, then burn the paper. Have a toast with a glass of wine, and renew yourself. If you are up to it, confront him and his wife and let them know how you feel. Take away their power over you because you have to sleep and be your best.

I hope you can successfully rub them out of your mind and feel empowered again. Sending you hugs and love. Love, Maggie

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Suzanne link
1/17/2018 07:46:55 pm

OMG ! I certainly hope this bully doesn’t have children or grandchildren. I’ve only had a dog for six years but learned quickly that they can assess a human better than humans. Jake’s obviously very smart to see this bully for what he is.
What an awful experience for Jake and you. You should be proud of how you handled the situation - Jake and yourself first.
It’s a long road without a curve, the bully will get his. Take care of pup and yourself,

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Tina Toney
1/17/2018 09:19:54 pm

Pets are very astute judges of character and your pet probably senses a dangerous individual and tried to protect you.
Dump that guy as a friend.

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Caryn
1/18/2018 05:56:35 am

This “man” is a bully and I would be suspicious of how he really treats his wife as well. Do not let him in your home. He obviously does not value anyone’s opinion but his own and is not worthy of your friendship. Big hugs to you and your sweet pup who has the heart of a tiger! Dogs know. Trust their instincts. Do not deny your own either.

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Robin
1/18/2018 06:24:19 am

As an owner of 4 little dogs I would have kicked the guy out of my house! I also would have taken the dog to the emergency vet for treatment! Then I would have sent the bill to the hateful guy!!! Your dog knew what kind of guy he is and you should go with the dog's intuition.

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Dawn
1/18/2018 05:01:57 pm

So incredibly horrible. If I were you I’d call your local Humane Society and speak to the Animal Protection Officer about what happened and what your husband witnessed; he kicked his own dog. He can advise you of any legal consequences and check in on “their” dog too to make sure he’s not in an abusive situation. Imagine how he treats other animals who don’t have people like you to protect them He should be taken to task for his cruelty. . . . And uncontrolled temper.

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Carol Decoteau
1/18/2018 07:48:26 pm

Dogs are much more aware of good humans and angry bad humans. Obviously your dog was a good judge of this mans character. Give your dog a hug and a kiss from me .😍

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Betsy BOLTIK
1/19/2018 01:18:31 am

He kicked and hit your dog in your own home. You handled it poorly as you know. But to ever interact or associate with this monster again would truly be a shameful act. He is an insane man, beat your dog, beat your wife abuse your children. I net all those fit his profile. Cut him from your life, or you'll never ever get past not protecting your fur child.

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Margie
1/20/2018 08:54:56 am

That man is not a friend, period paragraph! I would not allow him back in my house nor would I socialize with him. When people show you who they are, believe them. I hope jake is okay, and I am so sorry this happened!

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Margaret Hynes
1/20/2018 05:13:24 pm

If it was my dog the 'man' would have been KICKED out of the house.! Mine are big, and would have done serious damage to anyone who treated them like that. Well, maybe not..they are Newfs and have a very gentle nature. We have rescued 7 over the years,most of whom have been mistreated, and always have two. I wonder if he treats his wife the same way? Has anyone else wondered the same?

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Lynn Porter
1/29/2018 11:56:38 am

No need to dwell any further on your behavior and no need to justify. Do not continue a friendship with one who abused your dog or his wife. Their actions will produce far worse pain then their company is worth. Nor do you have to justify a change to them instead stop the invites and do not feel bad about it. Time to protect your precious family or worse will occur.
Much support your way and so sorry that happened to you, your husband and dogs.

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Karen Lediard
2/17/2018 06:22:17 pm

Your dear little dog was a good judge of character, obviously. And I would not call this man friend ever again, he would be banned from my home. What a terrible situation to be put in especially on your birthday. I hope your dear little fur babe is ok.

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Teri
12/30/2018 10:52:38 am

I'm reading this now because I was researching to see how others have handled this horrible situation. My little tough guy, Jasper, took the brunt of an unexpected, sudden rage of a loved adult male family member. After a couple months since the incident, I'm still so upset. Jasper is a white, 18 pound, mini labradoodle. Now almost 4 years old, I adopted him immediately after he was rescued from a back yard breeder when he was a few months old. He's full of spunk and SO loving! He does get protective and territorial, but would NEVER hurt anyone. He and my other male laradoodle (50 lbs) only occasionally tussle over a
toy or sock or something, but I separate them with a blanket or pillow to calm them down. There is never broken skin ... just pups being pups. When my family member purposley gave Jasper a sock "to guard," I said it would cause problems. Sure enough, my other dog went near Jasper and the fight was on. What happened next froze me. The man was physically trying to break them up and it escalated the whole thing. He was grabbing and kicking them, literally yelling as loud as he could, and calling Jasper horrible names. He picked Jasper up by a front leg and THREW him, causing an empty aquarium to shatter. He then picked up Jasper and took him in the bedroom where his crate is and closed the door. I was panicked. He came out a couple minutes later, breathing very heavy as he tried to calm down from his rage. I headed in to get Jasper and he told me Jasper was ok. I said that will NEVER happen again. He said something about them fighting and I repeated what I had said. Jasper did have an injured leg for a few days, but did not need to go to the vet. He was also obviously traumatized. The man and I talked about it again a few days later. He said the instant rage was the result of PTSD from being a former police officer, and he had gone into "fight or flight" mode. I said I had been very close to calling 911 because I had been scared and he had abused Jasper. I said he probably would have been arrested if I had called. He was very insulted that I said he abused Jasper. I said there was rage, violence, and Jasper was intentionally hurt. And yes, that was abuse. Anyway, I also can't get it out of my mind. I didn't try to stop the incident or rescue Jasper sooner because of fear it would make things worse. And now the family member has completely distanced himself. (Yes, he has been and is in therapy.) This whole experience was horrible. It's so easy to say or think of how you would react, but the real life scenario is so much worse than can be imagined.

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Mena link
2/6/2019 04:13:11 pm

like the last comment, i searched for other people's experience, but ohh i have a silent burning rage at what that person did to your dog and it sounded like it was on your birthday of all days.

for a person to inflict harm upon an animal because they cannot upon another person is horrible ...

my fiance had to restrain himself yesterday from calmly telling his family member to not kick our dog. I don't know how to face him after him doing it. i hope that "friend" is no longer in your life.

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Latrisha Rutayomba
6/2/2019 08:11:41 am

GIRL!!!!!!! I WUDDA SMACKED DAT MAN RIGHT THEIR & THAN!! YOU GOTTA MARCH UP TO HIS DOOR & TELL HIM HE AINT DONE RIGHT!!! U GOTTA SHOW HIM U A BOSS QUEEN WHO WONT TAKE ANY SH*T!!

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Erin
6/10/2019 05:55:12 pm

So first off I would like to say that I realize this is an old post. But I came across it and couldn’t help but comment.
In no way do I think it was correct what your friend did. As you said a reflex kick would have been enough, but to keep coming at your dog and then hitting it with his hand shows some kind of abnormal normal anger reaction in your friend.
That being said it sounds as if your dog is trying to nip your friend on more than one occasion, and it is incorrect of you to have allowed that to happen. As a pet owner you are responsible for your animals and you should have the dog in the other room if it is capable of biting someone. I went to a friends house once and their dog come at me with hackles up, and even though I was clearly nervous around the dog they would not put him in his crate or keep him away from me and he proceeded to circle me, growling. It was an awful experience.
Additionally, as a long time pet owner AND mom of two, I assure you that your pets are not the same as children. You do not feel as if they were “born from your womb”. Being a mom is an entirely different experience and it is insulting as a human mommy trying to raise two human boys to be contributing members of society that you compare your pets to that. Absolutely not comparable in any way whatsoever.

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Christine
7/24/2019 11:02:18 am

I think you misread. My little dog never tried to bite him before, it was a first time and it came as a big surprise. The comment I made about the womb. I have a son so I know about motherhood. I said I love my pups as if they came from my womb as a measurement of my feelings for them.

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Natalie
7/24/2019 11:21:12 am

For Erin

"You do not feel as if they were “born from your womb”. Being a mom is an entirely different experience and it is insulting as a human mommy trying to raise two human"

First off, who are you to tell someone how THEY feel. Your experience of love, motherhood and a fur mommy are unique to YOU! You can not sit there and write how someone else FEELS because you are not them. If you find it insulting then the problem is yours and yours alone. Talking from my own experience I would say my pets are better behaved than most people ! On any given day I would choose my dogs over people. You are a perfect example of the more people I meet/talk/interact etc with.. The more I adore my dogs and cats .

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Rebecca
4/5/2021 07:45:13 pm

Amen sister!!!

Natalie
10/13/2019 11:19:27 am

Greg. Let me guess you haven't got any friends. You are vile and should be treated as such. Humans are not the superior beings that you think they are. And again, should be treated as such

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Natalie
11/24/2019 02:07:49 am

To the commenter. I do not eat meat. I am vegan. So your argument doesn't win.

Reading these posts, let me tell you. People, friends, family memebers will come and go through your life. Your dog and animals will always remain loyal. What would I do if someone lay a hand on my dogs? They would feel my rage not fear. I would attack. These animals of mine are my family. They eat, sleep and wake with me. They are constantly at my side. I owe them and not anyone else.

So if someone dares even approach your dog with bad intentions. Let them know it will not be tolerated.

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real man
2/4/2023 05:40:34 pm

you people are so dumb. if your dog attacks me it will be lucky to live. ive shot someones dog before that attacked me. i ran one over with my dirtbike that attacked my friend. if you attack me for defending myself from your stupid badly trained dog ill knock your teeth out too. i hate people who think dogs can do no wrong. ur all snowflakes. you people dont live in the real world. if a dog wants to kill you, you should let it? jesus i feel sorry for your kids if you raise them to be this gay

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